How You Can Be There
During these unprecedented times, hospitals worldwide are dealing with the rapid growth of covid-19. Although a few countries and states including New York City thankfully have cases decreasing, the world does not feel very normal. As hospitals continue to be overwhelmed by the growing capacity, doctors are struggling with taking care of patients. The environment is certainly not the usual and besides the bustling rush hospitals in the past faced, doctors and hospital staff now face perplexity regarding how to treat patients with dreadful disease.
One thing that crosses my mind daily, is how young patients may be feeling. Being in a hospital is certainly a frightening experience, especially mid pandemic. Much has changed including young children's emotions regarding the new standards like the wearing of masks and limited access to family members being able to comfort children as they undergo treatment. Today I have a few tips on how parents and family members can be there for their children right now.
Let your child express their fears, and show that you empathize and hear them. Be both truthful and reassuring when you respond. Hold space for their feelings.
Don’t deny that certain things at hospitals can be frightening. Walk them through what is happening around them. Explain that a test or shot is there to help doctors and nurses and it will be ok.
Designate a special time out of the day to do something fun. For example a matching game, a coloring page or even a word search. Any sense of normalcy will allow there to be space for joy and laughter.
I hope these tips can help you and your family!
